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If You're A Sex Having Asexual Why Do You Do It? (enjoy that pun)

AussieAce
AussieAce
just as the title says, 

whats youre reason behind having sex?
would you be having sex if you werent involved? 

and so on....
Why are you shagging
  1. Are you shagging for you enjoyment8 votes
    1. Yes
      25.00%
    2. No
      75.00%
  2. Are you shagging or a partner8 votes
    1. Yes
      50.00%
    2. No
      50.00%
  3. Are you shagging or another reason not listed8 votes
    1. Yes
      37.50%
    2. No
      62.50%
  4. Are you for or against sex as an asexual?8 votes
    1. For
        0.00%
    2. Against
      25.00%
    3. I do not care.
      75.00%

Comments

  • Rolo
    Rolo
    Posts: 332
    I used to have sex, because I thought that if experimented enough I would eventually learn to want it. I was insecure and wanted to be 'normal'. I eventually figured out that there was no benefit in forcing myself to do something I didn't really want to, and stopped.

    As for other asexuals having sex, I don't care what other people do with their bodies. 
    Redshirt_JimRoardova
  • JanusDarkFox
    JanusDarkFox
    Posts: 240
    To please the partner and for both of our romantic development, difficult to perform without any fetishistic stimulus beforehand, partly for my own enjoyment.  Neither for or against sex as an asexual for me, if you're able for the development of a relationship.
    Redshirt_Jimcandybuddhist
  • cavalier080854
    cavalier080854
    Posts: 2,177
    Shagging is a very Asexual word. It is an American Dance craze.
    Redshirt_Jim
  • PiF
    PiF
    Posts: 644
    Same as others, to please, pleasure, comfort a partner. For me it is very clinical..do this then that happens etc but I do have a smile on my mush afterwards knowing my partner feels loved and cared for, even if sex is just a small part of it.
    Redshirt_Jim
  • Toffington
    Toffington
    Posts: 742
    Solely for my partner.
  • AussieAce
    AussieAce
    Posts: 642
    i wouldnt have sex to please anyone. i feel like f i have to give up are part of me for someone to stay then they arent the person for me. 
    alpha_decay
  • cavalier080854
    cavalier080854
    Posts: 2,177
    AussieAce said:
    i wouldnt have sex to please anyone. i feel like f i have to give up are part of me for someone to stay then they arent the person for me. 
    Then you will have to find another like yourself, that would be very rare and almost impossible task. 
    Myself maybe ? I used to like Johnny Cash in his early years as well as the Dixie Chicks. You will outlive me and get my money. Play the Merry Widow.
  • AussieAce
    AussieAce
    Posts: 642
    AussieAce said:
    i wouldnt have sex to please anyone. i feel like f i have to give up are part of me for someone to stay then they arent the person for me. 
    Then you will have to find another like yourself, that would be very rare and almost impossible task. 
    Myself maybe ? I used to like Johnny Cash in his early years as well as the Dixie Chicks. You will outlive me and get my money. Play the Merry Widow.
    well i still like johhny cash and im happy alone. im not trying to get with anyone. im really happy to have a house on my own and then adopt a bunch of kids. i had a horrible father so even if i wasnt ace id wanna parent alone, make my own choices and raise the kids how i see fit. 
    cavalier080854alpha_decay
  • JanusDarkFox
    JanusDarkFox
    Posts: 240
    Shagging is a very Asexual word. It is an American Dance craze.
    Is it also like an old British sex term? before the actual shag carpet.

    Watched the Austin Powers movies recently, uses that a lot , shagadellic baby yeah :p
    Redshirt_Jimcavalier080854
  • AussieAce
    AussieAce
    Posts: 642
    root and shag are my favourite words for sex cause it means sex without saying sex. 
  • alpha_decay
    alpha_decay
    Posts: 697
    Solely for my partner.
    same, although my first time was also because of curiosity. 
    in fact, I did it only like three times and all of them were with the same person, and I don't feel like doing it anymore. I don't even find it pleasant tbh.
  • cavalier080854
    cavalier080854
    Posts: 2,177
    Solely for my partner.
    same, although my first time was also because of curiosity. 
    in fact, I did it only like three times and all of them were with the same person, and I don't feel like doing it anymore. I don't even find it pleasant tbh.
    Oral ? Or will that be too gross ? How about mutual masturbation ?
    alpha_decay
  • alpha_decay
    alpha_decay
    Posts: 697
    Solely for my partner.
    same, although my first time was also because of curiosity. 
    in fact, I did it only like three times and all of them were with the same person, and I don't feel like doing it anymore. I don't even find it pleasant tbh.
    Oral ? Or will that be too gross ? How about mutual masturbation ?
    tbh none of these sounds appealing to me :o 
    AussieAce
  • AussieAce
    AussieAce
    Posts: 642
    Solely for my partner.
    same, although my first time was also because of curiosity. 
    in fact, I did it only like three times and all of them were with the same person, and I don't feel like doing it anymore. I don't even find it pleasant tbh.
    Oral ? Or will that be too gross ? How about mutual masturbation ?
    tbh none of these sounds appealing to me :o 
    mutual masturbation sounds so gross to me id just rather go down on them and shut them up about sex. either way id have to fake some kinda orgasm and i just dont have time for that crap. 
    alpha_decay
  • PiF
    PiF
    Posts: 644
    Mutual masturbation conjours up a vision of partner and you side by side, hands on each other and someone saying, ready, set, go
    alpha_decaycavalier080854
  • AussieAce
    AussieAce
    Posts: 642
    Mutual Masturbation sounds awkward as all hell to me. like youre not even close to having an orgasm and then your partner does...like so do you fake it or keep going for the extra 30 mins...
    what if you cant cum cause you loose interest in touch yourself after 30 seconds do you again pretend youre having a ball or do you be real get up and walk out...i mean in the end someones feelings will be hurt. 

    also how awkward the person next to you just pulling on there dick and youll laying there bored out of your mind no thanks. 
    candybuddhist
  • Roardova
    Roardova
    Posts: 35
    Sex is generally not important to me, my arousal depends on how comfortable my body is with someone.  If I don't have the time needed to be with my husband; I can't have sex with him the way he needs it.  He has that need, I don't; I can survive with out it but I do want him to be ultimately satisfied.  That will come with time.
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